I here by declare....

that i am one of the worst bloggers. I shouldn't even call myself a blogger. I am an internet-updater. I don't have time to blog. I only seem to have time every two weeks to give my 2 readers an update that they probably don't need cause they're my friends and have already heard all of this anyways.
Ok: UPDATE:
The search for the perfect wedding site (i know, it doesn't exist) is still on. I went to 4, 1...2....3....4, wedding sites on Sunday. I loved the first one, and then wasted the rest of my day. Though, had some fun in the process. The first one was The Adamson House, a beautiful outdoor venue on the beach in Malibu, with a star shaped fountain and a 100 year old Sycamore tree to get married under. The other 3 were: Malibu Nature Preserve (dump!!!), Belle Lereve (cool, but way to far into the mountains of Ojai) and The Ojai Valley Inn and Sap (really pretty, and nice....too nice....$400 a night to stay, and i felt like the people at the front desk would have licked my shoe clean if I'd asked.....uncomfortable is a good word for how we felt).
So there it is. the AH is our top choice right now. We're meeting with the site coordinator tomorrow morning to go over available dates and see if we can book it!
Aside from slight wedding mayhem, life is pretty sweet. My play hasn't opened yet (September 20 something) but we are in "preview" and working out the kinks:) it's fun to be on stage again.

i guess that is all the update I'm going to give you for now. tune in next fortnight for another tiny morsel of info about my life ;)